It seems that there are some women out there who are unable to last two minutes without jumping into another relationship. It is as if they cannot operate unless they are one of a couple, although this hardly seems healthy. Sometimes, it is good to remain single for awhile, especially after coming out of a long-term relationship, so that you can re-assess your priorities and reflect on what you want from life. When you're in a relationship, you can often find your own goals and ambitions are put on the back burner, and so being single gives you an opportunity
to focus on yourself.You therefore have to question the wisdom of women who go from one relationship to the next with very little gap in between. There are women who dump one boyfriend, because another man has shown them attention and they think that they're missing out on something. The grass may appear greener on the other side, but often these women find themselves just as dissatisfied with their new relationship as they were with their previous ones. Consequently, they look for someone else to fill a gap in their lives, as if being in a relationship is going to complete them.
If you need to be in a relationship to feel complete, you're obviously missing something. There is more to life than going out with someone. It might be exciting getting to know someone in the beginning, and you get hooked on the flattery and sexual energy that exists at the start of a relationship. Ultimately, though, what seems
exciting will eventually become mundane and although hopping from one relationship to another will give you a temporary thrill, this situation can hardly go on forever. If you are dissatisfied with something in your life, being in a relationship isn't going to alter that fact.In some cases it is understandable why women jump from one relationship straight into another, because being on your own can be lonely. If you've been used to having someone waiting for you at home when you get back from work and someone who you can tell anything to, finding yourself without a partner can be rather traumatic. You want the closeness you had in your previous relationship and so you seek it out in other people. However, if you're feeling desperately lonely, it is very easy to end up making rash decisions which turn out to be the wrong ones in the long run.
When you're in an emotionally vulnerable state, you may not spend too long contemplating the consequences of your actions and so you could find yourself drifting from one relationship to another. Although being on your own can be tough, especially if you're the type of person who needs to feel loved and are anxious about being alone, sometimes you have to give yourself a break and really think about what it is you want, rather than looking for something you're not going to find in yet another relationship.